So.... I really started missing domino (hence the dark borders
on windows) and I really wanted some aqua (news flash...).
So I wanted the mac like 1px mainwindow lines thingy... however,
in order to do that, I have to check what is around the frames,
which is megawonky... codewise I mean... looks slick as f**k but
is a mess codewise. As you can see on the bespin demonstration
window or whatever frames are full... but in the mainwindow you
only see the line drawn by separator.... oh well and then I had to
setup and overlay so the painting of the frames actually happens
on a widget that covers the whole frame...... oh well, who am I
kidding, nobody understands why aero is cool and nobody bothers
to read this anyways.... well I got it maclike, that's what I wanted.